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i need help!!
okay a couple questions...
i have a bf
i love him
and we have had sex b4
but with my bra on
ijm scared cus i have inverted nipples
and also.. i dont kno if i should shave my pubes or not
please help
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If you are that uncomfortable with your body you shouldn't be having sex. I can see why you are though. What you need to do is come to terms with how you look. If your boyfriend loved you as much as you loved him he wouldn't care. He may think they're cute, he may think they're cool, he may even laugh a little. You need to be able to handle any kind of reaction. If he laughs it probably doesn't mean he thinks it's funny. Many people laugh out of shock or surprise because they don't know how else to respond. Don't let his reaction hurt your feelings. He will accept it much easier and faster than you have. Build up the courage and talk to him about it first. Tell him about your condition and tell him how it makes you feel. I'm sure he will be veryyy understanding. If you feel comfortable enough at that point show them to him. Don't do it during sex. Make it separate from sex. You don't want to surprise him with it while you're having sex because his reaction will probably be much stronger. Shave your pubes if you want. I mean gosh, he's already had sex with you so I don't think it really matters. If you want to know what he prefers just ask. Good luck and make sure you are using a reliable type of protection unless you are trying to get pregnant. :)
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Hun,if your that self-concious of your body then you probably shoudnt be having sex with him.You shoudl be able to be confortable with yourself and your body.I know a ton of people that have inverted nipples its not that uncommon,actually i have inverted nipples myself and guys dont seem to mind they havent said anything about it before to me.I highly doubt your boyfriend cares that much if your nipples are normal or not.If your boyfriend truly loves you,he will love you for who you are and look past all your imperfections,no one is perfect.Besides guys love boobs no matter what they look like as long as there boobs lol.As for shaving the pubes part ask your boyfriend what he likes,but also do what your most confortbable with.Since youve both had sex before,and you havent been shaving,then i doubt he cares if its shaved or not.In my opinion,i think you should shave.Alot of guys like it shaved.Use a clean razor each time and use shaving cream or shampoo while you shave and NEVER shave dry it will cause ingrown hairs and give you nasty razor burn.Shave the way your hair grows and after your done shavings use a nonscented lotion/moisterizer or baby powder so it wont irritate the skin.Hope i could help!
♥ danielle
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Okey for your first question. Seriously girl, if he loved you that much he wouldn't care. Think of it as a test for him. But don't be afraid. If you really don't want to though, wait til your a little more comfortable with him. For your next question, I think EVERYONE should shave their pubes. I think it's nasty. Just use a new razor when shaving, use shaving cream (it makes it much easier.) and once your done put baby powder on it.
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