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meanies
okay so for halloween, i was having a few friends over and we were going to go to six flags. but one of them couldnt go because she was already "going with her family" and 2 other ones bailed out the last minute to go with her. before we left to leave, i asked my friend why she invited the other 2 since we could've all gone together, and she flat out told me off and called me a b**** for not hanging out with them! now i admit that since high school started (we're freshman!) i've been busy. im in choir, dance, the school vb team, and soccer.. and well these 3, but mostly the 1st girl, really have nothing to do as far as extra-curricular. she's fat and often gives me trouble about how thin i am. i was very upset because we used to be real close, but i got over it and left ready to have fun. when we saw them there, they waved to the other girls and shot me dirty looks. now at school the main girl is getting people mad at me, but if i run into them or something, they ask me why im mad at them! i've found out that at least 6 people were mad at me, because this girl told them i was mad at them!! do you think she's just jealous or something? shes trying to make my life a living hell.. and it's only worked a tiny bit. she even told my boyfriend / bestfriend that im a slut, a b****, and possibly cheating on him!? well, i need advice on what to do, im trying to ignore it but i think i might be too shy to tell her off or anything! HELP!!!
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Wow, I've had this happen to me. Honestly, you need to stop talking to them because this isn't going to stop. The longer you keep trying to be friends with them, the more you'll be hurt in the end. Highschool is the place where you can make friends will all sorts of people, so be nice to everyone. Don't try to take revenge on the girls. In the future, when you have friends and they dont (people catch on really fast when people are so rude) they will be very jealous of you.
It worked for me, so just keep your head up and try to make new friends. You won't regret it.
Good luck :) - Emilyy
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i was in your exact (almost exact) situation. and the answer is yes she is jealous of you. but she's telling otehr people that your mad at them to secure her popularity position, and she doesn't want you to take her spot. if she has more problems with you, visit your counselor, i think that will help, or even tell a close friend of yours to get their advice (since i don't even know this girl)
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get revenge. i know its not the right thing to do usually but in this case i think you should. give it right back to her. tell people that shes mad at them. try to break up her and her boyfriend, if she has one. do all the things possible to make her life a living hell. let her know that your the wrong person to mess with.
-missadvicebitch1
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