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should i forgive him?
so this guy crashed my bat mitzvah and he thinks i wanted him there (thats why he came). We dated about 8 months ago. He told me multiple times throughout the past month that he really likes me, but he leaves my bff comments on her myspace telling her thats shes pretty, smart, blah, blah, blah. My bat mitzvah was last weekend and he showed up and it was a black tie affair and stuff. Security took him out and he when he got home he started posting myspace bulletins about me saying i was a whore and stuff like that. he says that if anyone owes an apology, i owe him one for the security. About 5 hours before my bat mitzvah service (before the party) he promised me that he wouldnt crash it. As you can see, he lied. Its been about a week since it happened but im still mad at him for what he did. Hes always trying to talk to me or kiss me to "try and make up for what he did wrong." What should I do? at school we all have advisors (theyre actually teachers but theyre assigned to four students and we all meet every week). i told my advisor about the incident and she is not only my advisor, she's HIS teacher. the school knows about what happened and everything and theyve talked to him. He still doesnt think he did anything wrong and he wants me to have a relationship with him... I like someone else, but hes insisted that i Cant like the someone else. hes a freshman in high school and im in 8th grade. were both 14, but im older than him. my myspace is www.myspace.com/party so if u could help me out either there or on advicenators, that would be amazing ♥ and do you think i should forgive him?
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No, don't forgive him
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No, you should absolutly not forgive him and don't you dare feel guilty about it. This guy is is not in touch with reality and has crossed the line: He is now stalking you.
I'm so happy to know you advisor is aware of this and your school is taking it seriously. The very best thing you can do now is keep them informed of the things he is saying and doing, but at the same time do everything in your power to avoid him, in person and online. Ignore any posts or e-mails he might make. Do your best to act like he does not exist. You do not have to polite to stalkers.
This guy just does not get it, and he wont get it, no matter how much you tell him. So protect yourself and keep as much distance from him as you can.
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The guy sounds like an idiot. He's trying to get your attention in any way he can because he thinks if you keep thinking about him, you'll eventually want him back. He can't stand the thought of you ignoring him or wanting another guy. So do just that, tell him your bored of his childishness, you've moved on and he should do the same. Go ahead and like other guys, just dont give him any attention, and he'll soon get over it and move on.
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Honestly, I would do a bulletin/blog post about his - just copy and paste what he wrote and dispute it with what really happened.
Those who are your friends, would know enough to back you up.
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