this girl is my "best friend. except for she trys to be cool and a lot of people do notice. shse claims she "hates" the cool but then trys to hang out with them (which i dont get) my other best friend told me she was talking about me during lunch lieing a bout me like how im so bosy (because i asked her to save me a seat today!?) and other stuff but my other best friend wasnt paying attention. what doi do about her? if i ignored her shed be like i didnt do anything? i kno its true tho because my other best friend is like truthful and wouldnt lie about that stuff. (i know) what do i say!? ahhh its hard becuze its cool when were alone shell act normal but if the cool kids are around shell ditch me ITS FINE THO IF SHES JUST WITH ME SHE WILL ACT NORMAL! (i made it bigger because i thought its kinda importanat)
like last year a cool kid took my seat and im like can you please move i was sitting there and shes like NO. and i couldnt pull a seat up because the table was packed. so i moved. she did not stand UP for me she just laughed with that girl the WHOLE time and when she left, my "best frined" came up to me and as like "whats wrong? im like ARE YOU SEARIOUS i was sitting ALONE basically with kids i barley knew and dont talk to , and shse asks me whats the matter? just other stuff like that. (trys to be cool=obvious) PLEASE HELP
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? missadvicebitch1 answered Friday November 10 2006, 3:52 pm: well if she doesnt stand up for you when the cool kids are around then it seems that shes embarassed to be with you. notice that shes fine with you when your ALONE and with NO ONE else. shes fine with you because no one is seeing you with her. she isnt a good freidn to you. you should tell her how you feel and if she doesnt want to change for you just end the friendship. i know its going to be hard but its for the best for you. youll get hurt more and more by her if you dont end it if shes not willing to chcange. she wasnt a true friend to you and it looks like she enver will be. try to find antoerh group of loyal friends. goodluck. let me know how eveything thing goes. keep your head up high.
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