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should i be upset?
i just found a post on this site, and i am 100% positive it was by my friend. basically what she said was that i was a bad influence on her, but she likes the person she is turning into. should i take offense to that, or worry at all for that matter? advice is GREATLY appreaciated, i am a huge worry wort. thanks alot
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are you sure she was talking about you, and not one of your other friends? well, if you are sure, maybe you should talk to her. ask her how you're a bad influence on her, and be honest & say you saw her post. if you don't want to talk to her, think about why you're being a bad influence on her - do you do drugs? alcohol? shoplift? have sex? are you pressuring her to do whatever you are doing as well? if so, you could try and stop pressuring her. or, you could not talk about those things that you do in front of her. however, she says she "likes" the person you are turning her into supposedly.. what i would do is not pressure her to do any of the "bad" things you do, but if she chooses to do them, too, you can't exactly force her not to. i wouldn't be offended, but i would just think about the kind of stuff i'd been doing lately that would make me a "bad influence", and consider whether i should change ...
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I don't think I would worry about it so much. Do you realize how many people use this site? A whole bunch! Many of them with the same kind of problems.
So don't jump to the conclusion that it was her who sent the question.
If it was, I still wouldn't worry about it to much.
If she likes the person she is becoming then she can't think it is to bad. Be yourself. Don't worry what the next guy thinks. :)
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