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i dont know what to do
so i kinda like this girl (CSM)....wait, HELLA like this girl and she cooks me dinner and what not. we recently told each other that we liked each other and having hella fun. she doesnt know it but one night she was sleep talking and told me she HELLA LIKED ME. im trying to take it slow but i dont really know if she's cool with it. is it wrong to take it slow? i just feel like girls nowadays just want a guy's BOOTY but im after some real shit (RS). but so far so good. If i invite her to watch HEROES every week is that taking it too fast? i need some ASSISTANCE!
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A: well first, congratulations on acheiving mutuality.
if you aren't sure how she feels about how things are going or how she would like for them to go then you should talk to her about it and see what she wants out of it. make sure that you both express how you feel and what you want out of the relationship. you never know, she might be looking for that RS too, but it is all too true that a lot of the ladies are just out there to get some booty. talking it out with her would clear up any confusion and if you guys have different intentions then this will give you the chance to avoid future disappointment. on the other hand, if you guys are both on the same page then this would only strengthen and give assurance to whatever you guys already have going on.
good communication is key in any relationship.
there is nothing wrong with taking it slow and setting time aside to actually get to know more about the person on a more intimate and emotional level.
sure, invite her over for HEROES but don't make her feel like you guys are just hanging out like normal friends do because then she'll just feel like another homegirl. in short, make sure she knows she's more than just a friend to watch television with and that you, as you would say, HELLA like her.
best of luck,
thesammysammys
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