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Party or play


Question Posted Saturday November 4 2006, 10:58 am





hey,

I am having this awsome birthday party with a friend of mine. I had joined this play early on and i just found out they changed the date to the same day as my party!!!! My mom says I can't quit!!!!!! But the party really means alot to me and the play is causing too much conflict. What should I do?

help me please but i also don't want to be mean to the director



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confused_girl777 answered Saturday November 11 2006, 1:44 pm:
reschedule the party. My friend was having a biggish party (only 25 people but still) and on the day of the party something happened where he was needed so the party was postponed untill next week and everyone was cool with it. Just do the same poeple should understand. And if you really want the party host it after the play so you can also be showered in compliments of how well you did lol.

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GoodAdviceGiver05 answered Sunday November 5 2006, 10:08 pm:
There is a couple of different options. 1..go to bothh..first the play and if the party is still going on, go to the party right after! or 2..you could change the date of the party? Just depends on what you want to do. You really worked hard for the play, yet you still want to go to the party you've been waiting for..hmm this is definately a toughy. I wish these things never happen! haha they always happen with me. I was in a play, and it was the same time as my siblings party. So I had the play then afterwards went to the party. Hope I help some! :]

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MelLeDisko answered Sunday November 5 2006, 1:25 am:
You're right, you can't quit. After all the rehearsing and everything, you've made a commitment to the whole entire play, and it wouldn't be right of you to just suddenly drop out. Also, they'd have to find someone else for the part so suddenly to memorize the lines.. it'd be mayhem for everyone.

If I were you, depending on the time, maybe just switch the party to a later time on the same day, or just make the party the day after. Sure it'll be annoying tell everyone that the party is being changed to another day, but it looks to me either, have the party a different day, or no party.


To party, or not to party ; THAT is the question.

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esbeautiful1313 answered Sunday November 5 2006, 12:17 am:
as someone who is involved in theatre, i know it is not right to drop out of the play. when you auditioned/started it you made a commitment and you cannot go back on your word, it's not fair to the rest of the cast. not only would it be mean to the director, you would be mean to the entire cast and REALLY let them down! change the date of your party! or do it at another time on the same day. if you are the one having the party, you have the power to change the date!!!!!!!

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