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Question Posted Saturday October 28 2006, 9:37 pm

When people self-mutilate themselves they're actually just being selfish. People just don't get it. They think they deserve at least so much, but really no one (every myself) is worth anything at all, because everything comes down to luck. Your only hope is your own sanity, and moral conscience. I guess like I told myself metaphorically when I was growing up, "It's time to move on soldier," and that's even if you're shot.


that what your advice was but i don't think i am being selfish, I don't think i deserve enything great and i know i am not going to get enything great but i want my lil sister to have things as great as i can get them for her.My mother is abusev and I alway protected my lil sis thats not selfish at all, at least i don;t think so.Why do you think it selfish of my?


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JerZ answered Saturday October 28 2006, 10:30 pm:
Well because ultimately you're thinking about yourself before, and as you're make those scaring fashion statements on your wrists.
As for your sister the best thing you can do is explain to her that it's really stupid, and making herself feel better isn't the way to go about handling problems, because she's actually suppose to feel sad inorder to recognize something wrong.

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