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Hopeless Love
Hey,
I've been on and off with this guy since last year. I really like him, like to the point where I honestly cannot think of being with anyone besides him... at least not for awhile. We flirt a lot and I know we definetly have something, but everytime we get closer and it seems like were about to "go out" or get serious he freaks out. He backs away, its like he's afraid or something- idk what to do. I want to be with him so badly, but at the same time I wonder if he's afraid of relationships in general... or is it me he's afraid of?
- helpless
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I think you hit the nail on the head by saying he's afraid of relationships. (I don't think he's afraid of you.) Just be upfront with him. Tell him you would like to date him, and if he seems afraid and says no, ask him if he's afraid and talk about it. Reassure him that it's okay for you to date him.
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If you are really close then the next time the flirting happens or when you get close ask if you can talk to him. Ask him the questions you told me and maybe a spark will come up. The worst thing is that he could say no. And if he does I think he will still keep thinking and maybe come around or the both of you will still fool around and flirt with eachother. either way it is not horrible. Maybe even ask his friends about it. Hope this Helps! :D
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