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what's a girl to do?!
so i've met this guy last jaunary. we've been dating since march.. and i lost it to him (lets just say i didnt think about it before i let things happend). and well for the past month or so, i've been feeling so annoyed and irritated by him! i've tried breaking up with him twice! its not working!! hes not letting it hapend! he bugs so much! and ive told him im annoyed by him! he just gets mad and says he doesnt do anything to annoy me! half of it is him that bugs to be arownd me, and then the other half is me, that i get annoyed easily! ive tried asking for a break, but he says hes only gona give me my space.. but thats not even working! he still constantly calls, text, ask if he can come over everyday! and i dont know what to do about it! and i feel like hes always trying to win me over from my friends! and i hate it!! please help asap!
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You just need to tell him strongly, NO.
Just let him know that if he wants to continue a relationship with you ( which I'm sure he does ), then by not giving you your space and everything, isn't wanting to make you date him right now. It's making his chances slimmer. So don't call you or anything for awhile, at all, and you guys can talk if YOU text/call/talk to him or whatever, but only if YOU do it ( which I'm sure you're not going to do anyway, but if he thinks he might get called or anything, he won't call you. )
If he still is this persistent and fails to listen, then I would just fully end the whole entire relationship. He's being way too clingy, and that's not healthy at all on a relationship. Just explain to him then that things just aren't working out anymore, and you feel suffocated, and you're sorry, but it's over. And you hope friendship can still be in the future for you two.
I hope I helped.
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Tell him NO!
Don't answer his calls, or text messages. Ignore him at school.
If this doesn't work and he's still persistent, get someone else involved, as previously suggested.
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Just be firm.
Tell him its over, no space, no nothing, everything between you two is over. No connections left, you are burning all bridges between you guys having a "relationship" but friendship could be in your future.
Tell him he needs to stop calling&texting you so much, and TELL him firmly that NO he can not come over everyday, and not at all. And that you need time for your friends. If he wont leave you alone, let a school counsular know, or your mom. I know that sounds corny, but really, it will help.
Good luck with the annoying stubborn boy hun!
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