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Well lets see.. where do i start.. k, i am 14. birthday is may 16... and my boyfriend just turned 17 and his birthday is sept. 4... when he turns 18 i will be 15... is it illegal even if both our parents are fine with it and stuff?? and as long as we arent having sex? yeah i know my parents or someone could get a restraining order... but if my parents were cool with it and so were his...?? you get what im trying to ask?
well yeah i know i have a ways to worry about it because he just turned 17 about 2 months ago.
please give me some info.
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That is a big difference at your age level. In several years, it will not matter. Sex is an issue that will come up even if it has not yet. A boy soon to be an 18yr old man will want sex and find it somewhere. I don't think you are ready for that yet and you should not be put in a position where you will be pressured. It is more likely that you will have sex with him earlier than you would have normally with a guy your age.
Any caring parent would know this and be concerned. They may take legal action if you go against their wishes, in an effort to protect you if they feel it necessary. If you do start having sex or are thinking about it, please seek protection. Condoms used properly everytime will help protect you from pregnancy and stds. It is illegal for a minor to have sex with a legal adult, even if both parents were fine with the two of you having a relationship. Lots of risks and trouble can come from being with an older guy right now. Is it worth it?
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Dating is completley fine, it's just illegal to have sex with a minor. So as long as you two aren't, and your parents are fine with it, everything should be good. If you're worried about others getting out a restraining order, just maybe introduce him to them and let them know he's a good guy and everything.
I hope I helped.
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It is illegal for an adult to have sex with a minor. Dating is not an issue. Just make sure you are careful of other people misunderstanding the issue. ♥
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If your parents are OK with it, if there is no sex,
then you are good to go. Dating isn't the problem
having sex with a minor is. I don't think I would worry to much about it. You will be fine. :)
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