Question Posted Saturday October 21 2006, 10:43 am
im onbly 10.... and i have been threwe so much! my dad used to beat the hell outta ma mom and now..... sice that. my mom gave him a nother chancee bac in 03 and he came to live wit us in our 2 bed room appartment... my dads had drug issuees and he left about a year ;later to move to WV .... we later moved bac in wit him in wv and he still continued to beat my mom..... she called my unclke and he came to get us... we stayed in a motel (a roach motel) and ow we live in the fuuckin ghetto its so hard for me to adjuss to this stuff. and i havent even talked to my dad for about 6mounts now....my brother is depressed.. im confussed and my mom. juss doesnt give a fuck and putss all her stress out on me and my brother..... what can i do to stop all of this maddness? what cn i do to get errything to normal, to get my mom to treat me andm ym brother then same.... times hqave been heard... but ino that wit hope./ erything cn go abc to normal
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? Anq3L_xO answered Saturday October 21 2006, 8:00 pm: Like you said, with hope everything can go back to normal. Make the most of your situation, appreciate the close friends you have, don't try to play the hero, because you're only ten years old and you have so much more life ahead of you to play an adult. All you can do is be there for your mom and brother, maybe try to arrange an appointment with a counselor, for counseling or family counseling, anything. Don't blame any of this on your mom, because she does love you and it's hard to be a mom under those conditions, so respect her and love her for who she is, not the decisions she's made. As far as your dad goes, he doesn't seem like a great guy, so maybe you wouldn't want to live with him, but fathers are important, so try to maintain a relationship with him if at all possible. As far as your situation goes, keep your head up, stay out of trouble, and make the most of the good in your life. Take my advice, and good luck. -Angel [ Anq3L_xO's advice column | Ask Anq3L_xO A Question ]
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