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What does distance have to offer?


Question Posted Monday October 16 2006, 11:41 pm

Ok, so here is the speel, i really really like this girl and im not sure if she feels the same way. I've had this crush on her for about 3 years now almost. But im so far out of her way. I live 2000 miles away right now. Sometimes i feel like she does and sometimes i dont. If she does care about me like i do her does distnace matter. i come home when i can, sometimes once a month and sometimes once every two. Does the distance inhance whats not there. Give you time to guenually miss that person and appriciate them? Or does it tarnish all hope? I have to know....

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*ashlee* answered Tuesday October 17 2006, 11:10 am:
well, honestly. the distance does matter. im sure at some points you may feel that the distance will inhance whats not there. but in reality, you know as well as i that you cant hold a working relationship on seeing someone 6 or 7 times out of the year. youll be missing out on so much together. missing out on things she'll be doing with other guys.. i dont mean sexually. i just mean experiences you know. dates, movies, bbqs, parties, carnivals, get togethers, lunches, stop bys.. things you need to have a happy relationship. if shes anything like how im going to assume she is.. she needs someone whos there with her all the time. someone she can hug, sit around in her living room with and goof off, meet up with after school or for breakfast. not someone she'll see MAYBE once a month. but that doesnt mean you cant still see eachother when your in town and have a good friendship though. i hope you understand.

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