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I like too many guys
Okay well, there's this guy on my bus and he is sooooo cute, but my best friend likes him too. He is funny and sweet, but i don't want to betray my friends trust by asking him out or say yes if he asks me out. Also i am afraid i have no chnce with him cause he's "the cool kid". There is also this guy in my class we'll call him 2(as in guy too). Well 2 has been starring at me lately and i 've liked him for 2 years. I'm not afraid to ask him out or anyhting it's just this guy that likes me and who is also my BF is his BF! Then there is 3(as in guy three) he is really cute, but i have like no chance with him cause he's the "cooler kid" but he is also funny. He is also wonderful. Except... well there are these rumors that he is concieded a jerk and not a virgin and i am in the 7th grade here people in my opinion that is just wrong, but how do i know which rumors are true????? I honestly don't know what i'm asking but hey if any advice comes to mind go ahead and tell me
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There is no chance of betraying your friend if you are honest with her that you really like him, too. Big deal, probably lots of girls do. Tell her that she can ask him out if she wants, but if they don't work out, that you will be going for it. By letting her have the first chance, she can't blame you unless she is irrational. There is no such thing as liking too many guys at your age...it is normal! Get to know and talk to all of them more, before deciding between them. Also, it is a myth that some guys are unreachable because they are too cool or popular. Be confident and treat yourself like you are the hottest chick there and worthy of any guy...don't be a brat, just love yourself and others will notice your self-esteem, which will only make you more desireable to be around. From day to day anyone could shift in popularity, and you will see it in the next year or two believe me, so don't write yourself off!
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talk to all of them and get to know them better.for the guy with the rumors,just ask him if they are true.once you get to know them better,you will b able to choose.just follow your heart. =]
PS.GOOD LUCK!
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Well, In my opinion, you should just concentrate on being FRIENDS with these guys. Obviously you're in some kind of dilema over which guy to choose, so I'd just say to not worry about any of them.
If you absolutely need to worry about at least one, though, 'kid two' sounds best, since there don't seem to be rumors going around, and you wont hurt your friends feelings.
Just don't worry about guys too much, you'll have such a long time to be doing that! lol
Good luck
Kat<3
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