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Am i right to feel this way?
Ok, my friends and i have a pretty big group, a group of 9 people, plus some others that sometimes hang out with us. Usually Me, Jennifer and Hanna are kind of like the leaders of our group, although me and jennifer are really really close. Well, not really but we are the closest to eachother. Well, for about 2 weeks hanna would not let me and jennifer ever say 2 words to eachother without her being in the conversation too, which we thought was kind of annoying. (oh and by the wayI have 2 classes with Jennifer and Hanna and they have all their classes together) Lately all they want to do is be together and i feel really left out. Like they go over to eachothers houses and stuff and go on the computers at school and make shopping lists for when they go shopping together.
It really hurts because i dont know what i am doing wrong.
They will also have little eye conversations when i say something.
I really want it to be back the way it was. They are truly my best friends and i love them to peices, but the last weeek i have been so mad at them! I tried talking to Jennifer but she put all the blame on hanna, saying that she's the one who always brings things up and doesn't want her talking to me. I dont know what to do.
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ok so you want to fit in with your friends, and you have tried busting into the conversations. your getting left out. have you tried telling them openly how you feel? that you feel left out and that you love them a lot and it breaks your heart when tehy do that
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You are not doing anything wrong you just need to believe that. They are not your real best friends if they treat you like that. A way to get them back if you want is to find someone else to be your friend. If you get close with them and your friends see that, they will get jealous and come back to you. The key is to try and show that you don't care and you can live without them. Just you doing that will make them realize they need you.
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well try to talk to hanna and tell her how you feel about the problem and tell her almost everything you just told me right now.And talk to her in a nice way so that you guys don't end up fighting.If it dosen't work then start bbutting in so that they maybe can hear what you are saying next thing you know maybe stuff might get the way it was befor.
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