Question Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 12:50 pm
hi, well whenever this guy that i dont like goes and talks to this girl, which is just my friend, i get really jealous. this guy is sort of my friend, but i really dont like him. i get jealous soo easily, i hate it. any advice?
thelaura answered Thursday October 12 2006, 1:36 pm: He's "sort of your friend, but you really don't like him"
I'd love to help here, but it doesn't seem to match up.
You're probably feeling jealous because you could be hiding the fact you DO like him. OR
you don't want your friend to like him/become friends with him either.
Talk to your friend about this if it really bothers you that much. I know, jealousy seems like an awful thing, especially when people can't really help it. You need to control yourself. Think WHY you get jealous. Is jealous even the correct word to use? How about annoyed?
This situation is quite simple really. You can either stay away from them when they talk, join in with them, or just grin and bear it.
The last 2 seem like the most polite to do.
But do as you feel. :) [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
Short_N_Punky answered Thursday October 12 2006, 1:22 pm: Yes get over it and face your gut feeling stop trying to hide your thoughts. The reason you get jealous when you see this is because you do like him its just your mind is trying to deny it. Either get over the facts or just stop hanging around him or the girl. There really isnt much you can do. I hope that i helped a little and write me back i love to hear how it worked out.
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