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So theres these boyss....
And at school, they are flat out mean to me.
Always making fun of me in front of their friends but then , if we go home, they call me or sometimes wanna hangout or they IM me on the computer but dont know what to say and they make up excuses to talk to me like
one of them will like just say random words when he IMs me, and the other boy will sometimes come outside if i walk by his house and he is nice to me.
I like one of them, but he has a girlfriend and we both had kinda a fling over the summer, but i dont know if they like me or what.
Whats going on?
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I think it seems to me like they like you just fine or they ( like you ) like you. Most boys, of course, can still be really immature and think that "oh if I tease a girl it'll show her I like her," when it reality it doesn't make us like them much, does it? Lol.
The next time they're talking to you outside of school or on the internet, I would ask them exactly why they're so harsh to you IN school, but completley fine to you outside of school? And just try and talk it out with them in and resolve it with the both of them.
It could also be because does any of their friends have a problem with you? Sometimes boys think "oooohh he's not making fun of her HE LIKES HERRRRR" or "ew, you know i hate her. why are you talking to her?" so those could be other reasons for it. If it is because of that, then just ask them if they'll please then stop talking to you in school and jjust stay out of your way. You'd really liek to hang out with them and talk to them OUTSIDE of school, but if you're just going to be treated badly around them, ask them not to be near you then.
Boys are so immature sometimes, aren't they?
I hope I helped.
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Dear boylover, I think that the boys are mean to you only because they like you. But if the teasing and name calling gets to much for you just tell them how you feel. If they really like you that much they will respect your wishes.
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