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for the past 2-3 weeks it seems like i've been in a bad mood. like i dont wanna go places where a lot of people from my school will be. like i feel like i just hate everyone at my school and it feels like nothing goes right for me. like i hurt me leg at cheerleading about 3 weeks ago and i start practice again tomorrow but i can still barely walk on it but i told the coach i would and that has me worried because i fly and thats how i hurt my leg. im just scared. and like i feel like im losing my friends. i dont know how but i just dont seem like to talk to people as much as i used to. idk whats happening? am i stressed/depressed from my leg? i dont know but i just feel like crying, and it seems like its causing my head to hurt and i just want to lie around on the couch all day. whats the matter with me? (link)
I think that you might be close to getting your period if you havent already got it ( have you?) That or you are having mood swings ( that usually happens when your horemones are changing.) But I suggest writing in a jousnal when ever you get angry, Excercizing for at least an hour a day, and making sure that you get at least 8 hours of sleep a night. As for the headaches you should probably just carry around some asprin with you or rub your tempels when you ever feel a headache coming on. Hope I helped!

~ dreamysmama477 ~


I just got a razr && I love it. The problem is it came with pictures and I can't delete them. I don't know how to get rid of && they're really annoying.


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all you do is click on the _____ Button and then ____
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go to my photos or photo album and click on view pics and just click either the right or left button ( which ever one is delete) and delete the ones you dont want. Ok?




Okay, so my friend Lindsey met a guy named Harry online through the infamous myspace. Then she showed him to me and we talk a lot on AIM. Now Lindsey is lesbian so she has no interest in Harry whatsoever. But I'm bi and I like him and he knows that as well as me knowing that he likes me. In a more simpelr form, we both know we like each other. We haven't met in person yet but he lives only 30min away from me. I know, don't give out personal info, mett people you met online. Don't lecture me on that.

I already asked him to come to my homecoming at school but his parents won't allow it. (I can perfectly see well knowing the fact that none of us have met each other in real life. Not the internet) Well, he asked me to go to the movies with him tonight and I really didn't say yes or no. Now, there's a movie theater that is closer which I go to. And then there is a movie theater he goes to which is about 20-30min away from where I live. I really want to go to the movies with him and I probably will in some way or another.

The thing is I'm not going to tell my parents that I'm going to see a movie with a guy I met online. I'm just going to cover it up by saying I'm going to the movies with my friends. Now, Lindsey's mom won't mind driving me to Harry's movie place w/o telling my mom. But the thing is that I dislike Lindsey and that is another LONG story. Also she got back surgery and probably can't go. So that leaves me with no one to drive me to Short Pump. Well, I guess what I'm asking is:

Does anyone have a brilliant idea for which I can use to get to the theater that is farther away from me without my mom suspecting anything? If so how? I guess I could say that I'm going to be going to that mall where the theater is but then I don't know. & please dont suggest "He can come to your theater" because I'm expecting the worst. So does anyone have ideas as to how I can get to his theater w/o having to tell my mom the truth because I know she won't let me go. And yes, there will be involvment of my friends in there. There has to be. Which is another problem since I wanna be alone with Harry and my friends sit in front of us or something so they won't bother me and Harry...Sorry this is so long (link)
I suggest calling one of your friends and explaining the suituation to her and ask her if maybe you can go to the movies alone with harry and she sees a different movie or goes to the mall next door. That way you could cover up with your mom and she wont mind you going with your friend to the movies and your friend's mom could give ya'll the ride. Does that work?

~ Dreamysmama477 ~


OK... theres this girl at work that im REALLY into, and i know shes feelin me too. Shes currently with her girlfriend of about almost 2 years now, but their relationship has been on the rocks for awhile now. Before, i was giving her advice, and just trying to be there for her.. but things happened from there, and now i cant get her off my mind. The thing is.. we hooked up a few times, and yes... she is still with her girlfriend. She tells me that she doesnt know if she WANTS to be with her girlfriend, but she really does still love her. She tells me that she still wants me in her life, and i do want to be there... I know she has feelings for me... but shes just in a hard spot.
Now that her girlfriend is doing better, and her relationship "seems" to be doing ok... should i just find a way to drop my feelings for her and let her work on her relationship? Or should I keep things the way they are, and continue to be there for her?
I do want to be with her... but i want her to be happy..with me.. or with her girlfriend. I want to be here for her, to let it be known that im going to be here for her, but the way things are.. im the other woman.. and i dont like this feeling. should i back off? (link)
are you a lezbiean?


When i put in a Cd to listen to it asks if i want to play cd or rip music from cd.. what does it mean "rip music"? (link)
rip music is something you do to download the music onto something like an i pod so you want to choose play cd


Just to make sure, In the Bible in Revalations, it says the sexually immoral go to hell. What does that mean? (link)
Dear Immoral it means the sexually wrong such as rapeists, and perverts aka michial jackson are going to hell. Hope that answered your question ~ dreamysmama477~


im in eighth grade and i and my best friend decided to cheerlead. Cheerleading is starting in 2 days and i am so worried now. I have absolutely no idea how to do a cartwheel. I found some directions on google..but i'm still not being able to do it. I can't do the splits...not anything. I dont have to try out for cheerleading, but they have a, b and c teams. (a team is best, c the worst) It would be so humiliating to have to cheer for the c team.
I am looking for advice on how to improve my flexiblility, do a cartwheel and do the splits. Thanks for anyone who tries to help...i rate! (link)
Dear cheerleading trouble, I know that u only tried out for cheerleading because your friend did but let me tell you it takes years to train you body well enough to be an expert gymnist/ cheerleader but let me give you some advise on how to train your body a little bit every day........... First you start out streaching of coarse but then you practice standing on your hands and flipping. I gaurntee that you will be perfect cheerleading material in 2 two 3 weeks


i feel sad and depressed all the time no one understands me and i want to find someone who will say that they love me but i can't i just want to die. i know i sound like i am wallowing in self pity but i just feel so sad and alone. i asked this one guy out and i was rejected my mom says i am stupid and i am just feeling so alone what can i do? (link)
Dear Suicidal, I think the best thing for you to do is write in a diary or seek help as soon as possible!!!!!!!
If you need anymore help just type me! ~ dreamysmama477~


And at school, they are flat out mean to me.
Always making fun of me in front of their friends but then , if we go home, they call me or sometimes wanna hangout or they IM me on the computer but dont know what to say and they make up excuses to talk to me like
one of them will like just say random words when he IMs me, and the other boy will sometimes come outside if i walk by his house and he is nice to me.
I like one of them, but he has a girlfriend and we both had kinda a fling over the summer, but i dont know if they like me or what.
Whats going on? (link)
Dear boylover, I think that the boys are mean to you only because they like you. But if the teasing and name calling gets to much for you just tell them how you feel. If they really like you that much they will respect your wishes.


ok so me and this guy(bob) used to have a "thing". like we both liked e/o and knew it but never went out. i kind of ruined it. anyways, in my town there is this haunted hayride and tonight im going with freinds and he is going too. (he will be with us) i want to hang with hima and stuff. maybe act a little flirty. the thing is, he likes another girl that goes to his school. is it bad if i act flirty? is its not what can i do? if it is what should i do? (link)
Dear unsure, I think that if bob already likes another girl that you two should just be friends. That or wait untill Bob's realationship ends then come into the picture; do you know what I mean?


Dear Advicenators,

I have a very bad problem. I have this feeling that I don't want to study anymore. When I learned about how I felt, I was disappointed, I never knew I could actually feel this way because I'm an honor student. I moved to a new school, and when second semester came, I had this feeling that I don't want to pursue my studies anymore. Or maybe its just because I felt really bad about my grades during the first semester because they were surprisingly low. Or maybe I'm just going through some sort of phase. I really don't want to think this way because I know that my mom works very hard for my education. How do I snap out of it? [f/13]

Super Thanks in Advance!

Love,
Stacy (link)
Dear Stacy, I think the best way to snap out of it would be to every day give yourself something to look forward to after studying. For example say that you have a big history exam coming up and you really dont want to study, well tell yourself that you are gonig to go out for pizza after studying or do something that is rewarding for your self afterwords. I gaurntee that it will work and you will find yourself wanting to study mome and more each day.


My mom and dad are pretty always much taking my brothers side what do i do?
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Well Seeker, I think you should Ketch your brother in his act of doing something bad or give your parents a reason not to trust your brother




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