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i feel like nobody likes me
hi. I know this may sound wierd but I have liked several guys as more than friends and I am never (and i mean like, never) liked by them. Or anybody for that matter. I am starting to feel unloved and like nobody will ever like me and i know im young but i want more than anything to have a boyfriend (just one that you'd walk with or hang out with or whatever, not one that your going to dinner with!) and I know people who have had someone that likes them and they like back but i havent since gr. 3! I feel unloved and i want to know what it is that makes me so unattractive. Sure im kinda wierd but i know other people that are wierd and they have had boyfriends. I dont know what to do. I feel really sad. Hailey-13
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
I know that just because you've never had a boyfriend you might feel unloved and unattractive, but you're probably not. I mean, alot of people say I'm pretty, but I've never really had a boyfriend either, I'm almost 3 years older than you!
Believe me, I don't even think you'd WANT to date at your age. I mean sure, it's great to have someone to talk and hang out with and everything, but 13 year old guys, just like the guys my age, are mostly really immature.
Just give it time. Sooner or later, a great guy's going to come along and instead of sitting there going through 9304930 crappy ones, the wait will be worth it.
You're only 13, you have PLENNNTTYY of time to find a boyfriend. Just live and enjoy life and if a guy comes along, great!
Also, it just may be the vibes your sending out may be giving a guys a feeling that you don't like them back or you're just wanting to remain friends. Just try socializing with guys more, and give them attention and flirt with them casually and just hang out with them and make them laugh ; but def. flirt cause ( obviously ) that shows you like them a bit without hanging all over them. Plus, sometimes people just have a specific type of girl their interested in, just like girls do. Blonde, brunette, red head, whatever. And I'm not sayign your BAD or anything, but it is really hard competeting with 309403943 different types of girls in school, right?
You just got to keep looking around until the one good guy comes along.
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