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Mean "Friends"
Okay I have these 2 "friends" [I'll call them Sady and Jenny], and we planned to go to the football game at school together.
The day of the game, they were all nice to me, except Jenny said she couldn't go to the game at school. Then, later that day, Sady (who is also Jenny's friend) called me and asked me if I wanted to go to the football with them, because Jenny could go no. So I was like, "Okay". Then Jenny called and said that we'd all meet at the candy shop (which is about half way to the school), and I agreed. I was really excited, my sister did my make up and everything. Then, they both called and said "How about we meet at the school instead?" and I was like, "Sure," and then said they'd leave at 7 pm [time of the game].
Then my mom offered me a ride at 7 pm, so I called them back and said that my mom could give us a ride, and they were like "No, its okay. We're walking out the door right now." So I was like "Well my mom can come your way and pick you up as your walking," and they were like "No really, it's alright." So I got dropped off at the school, and they wouldn't answer my texts.So I decided to call them and ask where they were. Sady answered and said in phony voice that she "left", but I could tell it was her. And she knew, so she still said "she's leaving right now". Just in case they weren't, I walked to Sady's house. On the way I saw both of them walking. I acted like I was all busy and texted someone on my phone. Then, I looked up and I saw them both run fast, across the street and down another. They ditched me. I didn't know why, because they are both really nice to me, when it's just me and Sady/Jenny. I tried looking for them,but it was useless. I went to both of their house [they live really close], and neither one was there. I tried calling, texting.. no answer. Sadly I walked home and I tried calling Jenny's house. Her dad answered, and they said that Jenny was supposed to go to the game with me, sady and jenny, and meet me at the candy shop. That was it. He said he was sorry and that'd he'd get her to call me when she comes home.
I have no idea what to do now [about an hour after the game finishes]. I still want to be their friends (we were really close and go way back), but I don't want them to treat me like this and feel bad for what they did. What should I say? What should I do? Please help.
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I don't see why you'd want to continue being friends with these girls. They sound so rude and like complete jerks! I'm not trying to sound harsh here, but they are. And like you said, you guys WERE close and all, and sadly, sometimes people change and as they get older and become teenagers, they get ruder.
If you really want to try and remain friends with these girls, just try pulling htem over in school or going over their house or calling them, whatever makes you most comfortable, and confront them about what's going on. Ask them why'd they do such a rude thing , and you thought you guys all were friends, and friends don't do that to eachother. And just talk it out and try to resolve the situation.
If they're sitting there being jerks still and not wanting to resolve it ; I wouldn't waste your time with them any longer, and even though you've guys have gone way back, they seem to have changed, and you can change too and make new changes by getting new and better, nicer friends.
I hope I helped.
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