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Question Posted Friday October 6 2006, 8:17 pm

16/f. this guy i was kinda sorta friends w/ last yr right. well last yr he randomly asked if i liked him. i didnt, and i even was datin someone at the time so i told him that. so he kinda avoided me after that.. it was at the end of the school yr. i hadnt talked to him at all till we ran into each other at school a couple times this yr. then he started callin me and he calls me pretty much every nite now.. a few times if i dont answer. and he asked me to the movies once [but we didnt go]. also apparently he rushes from class to see me in the halls, and hes asked if id drive him home when i got a car, or else hed take me home when he got a car. mm wtf lol does it sound like he likes me? weve never been real close friends or anything, we jus have talked before and stuff. i have a bf that ive been w/ for 3 months and id never leave him but this guy i guess doesnt kno i have a bf. so im j/w if it sounds like he likes me. i dont flirt w/ him or anything, im jus nice if he talks to me but im wonderin if i should make it clear im not interested in him? but i dont wanna jus randomly say that if hes not interested in me anyway.

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MelLeDisko answered Friday October 6 2006, 11:43 pm:
It definetley sounds to me like he likes you. Even though you don't flirt with him or anything, he might still find you a really nice and cool girl to talk to and that may be why he likes you. You don't necessairly need to flirt with him.

The next time you two are talking, just mention your boyfriend in the conv. Maybe just start talking to him about what he did this weekend, or what he's going to do next weekend, and whenever he asks about yours, just casually be like,"Oh, I'm gonna go hang out with my boyfriend on Friday and catch a movie or something. We're going to see ____, it looks really good." Or something random, so you're letting him know you're dating someone, but you're not making it sound like you're laying it on him and giving him the message to back off or something in a way, and it sounds like you're just making conversation if he IS not interested in you.

But like I said, to me it definetely sounds like he is. No guy normally dashes from class to their girl friends class and to her car and whatnot, haha.

I hope I helped.

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