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Question Posted Wednesday October 4 2006, 7:21 pm

Yeahh.. My Parents Know, And It Effects Me.. I Told Him About My Pastt.. and What's Funny Is The Same Thing Happened To Himm.. So We Relate Pretty Well, But It Doesn't Effect His Sexuality After All He Is A Guyy Lolz.. And He Undertstands So After I Told Him We Cried Together And Stuff.. And People Keep Saying He Must Be Using Me Because He Keeps Breaking Up With Me.. But He's Trying 2 Keep Me From Getting Hurtt.. Because My Friends Stopped Being My Friends Because They Told Me To Break Up With Him And I Sed No.. And He Was Losing His Friends Too.. But We Got Them Backk, Considering We Have The Same Friends Hahaha.. I Have All My Usual Friends Backk.. And He Made Me Stop Cutting And Shoves Food Down My Throat!! Haha.. The Other Day He Wanted Me 2 Go 2 Walmart With Him.. And It Was FUNNY!! Lolz.. Except Todayy I Was In A Reallyy Bad Mood Because I Have Figured Out That No One Will Take You Seriously Unless you Are Over 16, Can Drive And Have A Jobb.. I'm Extremely Mature For My Age.. You Would Not Believe How Much Of A Misfit I Am At My School.. I Guess I'm What Most people Would Call "Gothic" Or "Emo", I Like Who I Am, I'm Not Fake Like Everyone Else I'm Myself And That's Itt.. That's Prolly Why No One Really Likes Mee.. Except Him!! haha.. I'm Supposed 2 Go 2 The Movies With Him Friday With My Sister And her Boyfriend, I Was Saying I Was Going 2 The Movies With My Sister And Her Boyfriend And He Was Like Do We Have 2 Sit With Them? And I Was Like Hell! I Never Sed I Was Going With You!!. Haha I'm Evill.. And I'm An Honor Student.. I Make Straight A's.. People Just Don't Usually Understand Me..

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dia answered Thursday October 5 2006, 11:07 am:
ok...i too am a rocker!! :D, but unlike me...you get good grades...you get A's, i get C's...im more of the average grade student. not super smart - but not stupid hehehe. although i did just get an A in my english GCSE (these are exams we english people take so we can actually get a good job when we are older...a C is considered the grade to get if you wanna get a good job haha)...yeah i failed maths..im more of an english subject base student. hehehe

ANYWAY...
well, this guy seems alot better than i thought he was, he seems fine, and if you cried together, it shows you have a bond. he wouldnt have cried infont of you if he didnt care.
im also glad that he cares so much that he's making you eat (which i didnt know you were depriving yourself of. i know someone very close to me who used to have a problem like that - i mean, he would eat, just not a substantial amount.

the only reason you should break up with your boyfriend is if you KNOW your friends are right, if they are wrong about him, then tell them. dont yell it at them, just calmly tell them .

its good that you're different, we have alot less people in our yeargroups than you do, which is firstly why everyone knows everyone, and everyone is included, however, i can understand not fitting in. sometimes feel that way, though i do have ALOT of friends! :D.
people who dont accept you are pathetic and shallow - which is WHY they do it. quite frankly, its THEM who are not good enough, not you. so dont you ever let anyone tell you that theyre better than you...because its bull!! hehehe

well, your boyfriend was breaking up with you for good reasons, and for YOUR benifit, which proves how much he cares. it sounds like you had a nice time in WALMART i fucking love that store, we have "ASDA" over here, a crappy spin-off from the shop (walmart own it). its not even close to being like a walmart, except for the kinda low prices...that about it . i havent been in a walmart since April, and im missing it like hell :(

by the way, the only way you are taken seriously is if you ARE mature , and dont act childish by acting mature. you said you're mature, so i cant see why people wouldn't take you seriously. driving and having a job have nothing to do with being taken seriously, sure it shows that they have responsibilities, but when working do they work to the maximum? and the people who drive: are they careful and considerate on roads,or are they a silly driver who breaks laws by going through red lights because "its coool man", then in that case, its bolloks that THOSE sorts of people are taken seriously. and i can asure you that there are LOTS of people like that !
so i wouldnt worry. if you show that you are mature in the right ways (that DOESNT mean going around having SEX to prove it), then you'll have no problem. and the reason you probably "dont fit in" at school is purely because everyone else STILL hasnt grown up! ...which is how it normally is at 14 - and no matter how much you hate to her it..im gonna say it...(haha)...14 year olds are still classed as kids, its not until you're like 16 that you are oficially considered "young adults"...yes, i know. IT SUCKS.

i hope you have fun at the movies on friday. im spending the night in with my boyreind instead of going out, though i have a gig tonight - havent played since july :S hehehe

anyway...
good luck.

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