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my sister
my sister is a bitch...she's 10 and i'm 14 my parents always pick her side and like her better they say they don't but they do...all of them are being bitchy...my sister makes stupid and unneeded remarks..like if i do something she says you better and it makes me mad because she does it all the time and she even hits me and scratches me...and goes and tells i started it then my parents get mad at me be cause they think i started it and i hit her....and then i show the scratches and hits she does to me they don't say anything...it bothers the crap out of me..i can't stand it...wat can i do to make my sister stop!!
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im the same way with my sister. except im the younger one! like i did the same thing and i just saw how my sister was gettin really mad. it also annoyed me when she started ignoring me. i thought it was fun because she was gettin mad. when she started showing she didnt care but she really did i stoped. just ignore her. trust me
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Parents always tend to do this. Parents always tend to favor the baby child more and sometimes they don't even realize it. It's just because she's the young one, the cute one, the funny one, whatever and of course they're going to pick her side. Being the older kid sucks, doesn't it?
I would just start to ignore your sister and hopefully she'll get the hint you're not being bothered by her and she'll back off. But if she continues to hit you, just hold her hands or block yourself from her so she can't and immediately then take her with you to your parents and explain to them what just happened. That way the hits are "fresh" if that's how you want to say it, adn you're sitting there holding her arms in the way she was hitting you, which is proof. If they don't believe you still, they're nuts.
Also just talk to them about it whenever your sister's not near and explain to them what's going on. Tell them you do not hit her at all, and look at all the marks on your arms. It's not like you're purposely hurting yourself just to get a 10 year old girl in trouble. Let them know that you feel like you're the less favorite and how it hurts whenever they instantly take your sister's side every single time. Just tell them you're not trying to cause trouble here for everyone, just whenever you come to them whenever your sister's hitting you, for them to ask her to please stop it and take control of the situation.
I hope I helped.
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The same thing actually happened to me. I'm actually the oldest child and my parents alwasy like 2 baby my sister and I hate it also. What I did to stop it was tht I found something bad that she did and told her if she wouldn't stop ill tell on her. It actually wasn't the perfect thing to do. So I won't tell u to do that but ill tell you to talk to your sister find out what's her problem also talk to your parents and tell them how you feel. The best thing to do is to IGNORE her what she wants is for you to get mad and she's avoisly doing that so just ignore her shell eventually stop.
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Well, i'm sorry to say this, but parents are like that. They love to baby the youngest, and its just because they know their not going to have anymore children. I would suggest that next time, instead of going to your parents after the conflict, ignore your sister, and go straight to them. She'll most likely be so mad that your ignoring her, that she'll follow you. After you find your parents, just sit down and tell them, that you feel like their favoriting your sister. Dont let them end the conversation, just keep telling them of all the things she does. Make sure that they understand before you let the conversation drop. Everytime your sister attacks you, just hold her hands away, and call your parents. You cant get in trouble for making sure that she cant hurt you.
I hope i helped a little.
Good luck
From,
The middle child
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