hey. im a cheerleader and im completely obsessed. i made the varsity team this year as a freshman and so did some of my other friends, but some other close friends didnt. we worked through that whole problem, but i still feel that there mad at us for making varsity. what can i do to keep us all together?
First off, congratulations on making varsity. And don't worry, I love cheerleading too! Anyway, I'm sure your friends are going to feel a little inferior towards you and upset that you made it and they didn't... it's only natural to feel jealously in this situation. You just can't let it affect your friendship. If you already worked through the problem, then I would say not to bring it up again. Don't really talk about cheer too much around them to make them uncomfortable. Pretend nothing happened and keep on living your life normally. And most of all, don't let it get to your head about varsity. You obviously made it because you are good and you deserve it, but it would not be good if you boasted to them so just keep it on the DL (downlow).
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