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viscious rumors
hey ok so im 15/f im a sophmore in high schoolnand my firend people were saying stuf about me like im gay and stuff like that.. and that really pissed me off and she won't tell me who said that.. and i asked her of this one girl hated me she said she doesn't like me because she heard stuff about me... and i want to know who is saying what about me so i can tell my c ounselor but my friend won't tell me so what should i do?
nikita
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Your friend isn't being a friend if she won't tell you who these people are.
first thing:
These people who talk behind your back
1. Are too afraid to say it to your face
2. Are pathetic
3. Have nothing better to do with their lives
4. Have to make fun of someone else just to boost their already too large ego up or feel happy
5. Are immature and hypocritical.
It's actually pathetic and funny if you think of it. So you really should say something like what I said above if someone says that to you or something..just don't jump in a conversation where oyu hear people talking about you. Just go by them say what I said and walk away.
Do not ever spread rumors around or reply in an angry manner. Because they will take hold of that and spread more rumors.
If you feel like this is getting out of control, you need to go up to your friend. Tell her that if she is really your friend, she should be willing to tell and help out instead of holding back and supporting these people who are immature.
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No offense but i wouldnt talk to that "friend" because if she is letting this mess carry out and she knows who is doing it and wont tell you thats not a true friend. And dont get me wrong she might be really cool and nice but maybe she wont tell you because shes the one saying it. Its just something to think about. I also know that ignoring it doesnt work it just gets worse so go to your counseler if you want to do that and say look there is someone around school saying something about me and this person knows but isnt saying anything to me. That you want it stopped your counseler can do something azbout it then. But other than that i dont really know how much to tell you except good luck and write back tell me how it went. I know about this my ex-friend angela pulled this on me but some friend she was.
Signed
Short N Punky
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