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WHEN FRIENDS CHOOSE YOUR EX
i dont know what to do .my boyfriend just rercently cheated on me,then he brooke up with me.my friend briana was really helpfull saying ohh well its his l;oss not yours.but then today he asked her out ,and i asked her what she was goiun to say and she said "well im saying no cuz that would be messed up your my friend"but then he asked her at lunch and she said ya .should i be mad
p.s for now im not talkin to her
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She obviously knows its wrong because when you asked her she sed no. tell her it upset you and if she doesnt do anything she isnt a very good friend is she? ignoring her will just make it worse because shell get mad at you then youll probably end up falling out.
hes your ex and if youre ok with it then maybe it would be ok
are you? or do you ot mind her going out with him?
she is your friend but if he cheated on you then he can do tht 2 her so maybe you should look out for her because then youll both end up getting hurt
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kim
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That happened to me >. Well I got ticked off like the jiffy. I walked straight up to her and slapped her pretty little bitch face. But that was me, this is you. I agree with the two below, she said what you wanted her to say and not what she wanted. If she's with him now just walk up to her and yell at her tell her she's a liar and a backstabber and you will never forgive her. If she's that kind she'll dump him and say sorry. Tell me how it goes later! Good Luck!
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If she is 'using him' tell him that and tell him you only care about his stake of mind and you dont want to see him get hurt. Tell him your warning him because you care. If he doesnt believe you then just let it be.
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I have to agree with MelLeDisko on this one. She tells you one thing to your face, and then does the exact opposite...I'd be ticked too!
IMO she is trying to keep you from getting angry by telling you what you want to hear, and at the same time trying to take advantage of the fact that you 2 broke up - all while staying friends with you.
Now, I don't think the fact that the 2 of them hooking up is exactly a bad thing, though its understandable you would feel bad about it....its the fact that she was two-faced about it. Both of them would be somewhat correct if they said it wasn't any of YOUR business what the two of them do, its simply the fact that she wasn't much of a friend when she gave you that line of BS about being your friend to your face.
I'm not sure that if I was in your shoes, I would feel any different. But I can say that if I had been your friend, I would have been honest and told you that I was thinking of dating your ex.
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Of course you should be mad! For one, you trusted her, and she basically lied straight to your face and said yes to him behind your back. And two, she's your friend and she shouldn't be doing that in the first place unless you're okay with it, which I doubt you are. I would have a serious talk with her and ask her where her loyalties lie, and ask her why she would just go and do something like that behind your back, and you thought she was your friend. And let her know you really hurt her feelings, and you guys JUST broke up. If she doesn't try to talk about it with you and resolve it, and just continues to date your ex-boyfriend, then I would highly consider discontinuing your friendship with her if she's going to sit there and choose guys over her friends. But trust me ; if he cheated on you, he'll probably cheat on her, and since she did that to you, whose shoulder will she have now to cry on? Nobody's. I always say,"Chicks before dicks." :P. I hope I helped.
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