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Shes being freakn retarded.
One of my bestfriends Asked the guy that i liked out. Well i was really upset about it and she told me to stop acting like a child. She knows that i really like him and have for the past month.
He ended up telling her that he wont go out with her. But shes not the type of girl to give up when she likes someone. She will pester him till the end. And i dont want to hear her talking about him constantly. And i really dont want her liking him i know sounds rude but she gets a boyfriend and wont talk to him for like 2 weeks and then decided well i dont like him anymore.
I know its not actually a question i just need some advice on what i should do. 17 f
----- She knew that i liked him because i told her like 3 weeks ago.
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Well, your friend isn't your friend if she would let a guy rule over your friendship. If she doens't aggree that friendship is more important than guys, than that means she obviously don't value your friendship. And guys don't really like guys that pester them every step of the way. So erm don't waste your time on her. Ignore her and just be nice to this crush, talk to him, invite him to group things like bowling or go to the movies without this friend of yours and maybe ask him out..??
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Mystic sandwich is absolutely right.
All if fair in love and war. I'm only reimbursing the point made.
Let him make his own mistakes and find out for himself. She did get to him first, so there really isn't anything you can do about it, you just missed a chance.
Perhaps working to be the friend he has to come with when she pesters him? Don't do anything rude though, because then you'll ruin any chance completely.
All if fair in love and war, and I hold that to be one of the most absolute sayings in my entire mind. Do what you think is right.
I hope I helped.
-Ryan
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RE: Your comment
Youre right. I wouldnt like it if someone went after a girl I liked. I wouldnt like it at all. But the fact is, that if I didnt do anything about it myself I wouldnt have any excuse to complain if they dated someone else. Besides, if she dates him and drops him, you can pick him up after.
To be honest, its not really your business, and youre both being kind of juvenile.
Ever heard the phrase "all is fair in love and war"?
You liked him for three weeks, and didnt go after him. Liking him doesnt mean you have claim on him. And unfortunately for you, your friend probably began to be attracted to the guy when you told her why you thought he was attractive.
If shes immature about relationships, thats her (and his) problem. You may not like it, but you also really dont get a say.
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Well talk to her about it and if she still tells you to stop acting childish then tell her to stop bc she is doing the same thing!! also tell her that when she decides she wants to be friends again then to let you know and you will consider it!!
♥Zoey
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Sit her down and talk to her. Tell her you felt betrayed when she went behind you back and asked him out; that she should have let you know, at least. If you had already asked him out and been unfortunately declined, than there wouldn't be a reason to deny her the right... however, she, being a best friend, should have told you, should have let you know.
If she can't sit down and talk candidly with you about these sort of things, which you should, than perhaps the friendship isn't as strong as believed.
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