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I need advice!!!
I just broke up with this boy I've been going out with for a week because I realized I didn't feel the same way he felt about me. Less than a week later he's going out with another girl who happens to be one of my friends, but recently she told me she was going out with another boy at another school. I feel angry at this girl because even though I don't own him, I still feel sad at the thought of him going out with another girl and now she is hurting me and will be hurting my ex-boyfriend when he finds out. Should I confront her or just mind my own business?
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It seems easy to just tell him, but it could backfire. She may deny ever telling you about the other guy and call you a liar. You could end up looking like the jealous ex-girlfriend trying to break them up just to be vindictive. They likely will break up on their own soon. It is up to you whether or not you want to take a chance and also to decide if you just want him to not date your friends or maybe want him back. I personally would not chance it just to get them back. I might talk to him if I realized that he was the guy for me and breaking up was a big mistake. Good luck!
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Okay the most important thing here is to not be angry at your friend. After all, you broke up with the boy, which makes him free to date whoever he pleases. Maybe your friend broke up with the boy from the other school, and just didn't mention it. Maybe she ended it, so it's not affecting her as much. I don't know enough details to even speculate, so I'm leaving it at that.
I recommend you should mind your own business. As much as I think you want to break them up (maybe he's an ass), I think you should leave your friend to make relationship choices for herself, and if they're bad, well, you dated him too.
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