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A Guy Likes Me And I Dont Like Him..
13/f/aus
There is a boy at my school who really likes me..but I absolutly hate him. I went out with him once for about a week cause my friends wanted me to, he then dumped me cause my frineds told him to and recently he asked my friend to ask me if I would go out with him again saying that he loves me and if I say no I would break his heart...so i said no cause i hate him and everything and all my friends have been saying hes a good guy but i dont think he is cause there was an incident earlier this year and I was there and he said I did it and I didnt...and my friends dont realise this so they are pressuring me to go out with him cause I am one of the only people in my group of people that doesnt have a boyfriend and at the moment I dont want one cause I dont like any of the boys at my school at the moment so Im going to wait until next year when new people come to our school but they dont know that and Im to afraid to tell them... what should I do???
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You shouldn't have to be afraid to tell your FRIENDS anything. Your friends should be able to understand you and shouldn't be sitting there pressuring you to do anything. You make your own choices, you like who you want to like, you say what you want to say.
Just explain to your friends that you don't like him like that, and don't they think it'd be better to break his heart now then later on when finding out he'd be getting dumped AND it was just because you were pressured into it? I'm sure your friends'll be able to understand where you're coming from.
And tell them even though they all have boyfriends, you're really not wanting one right now. There's nobody in school you really like anyways, and you just enjoy being able to relax and have fun with everybody. And let them know, someday you'll get a boyfriend and you guys'll all have one, but not yet. They'll just have to wait until a guy that you like comes around.
I hope I helped.
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Don't be afraid to tell them this, stick up for your self and don't cave into pier pressure. Screw em be who you are not a robot. By the way people do change over the summer, maybe you will find a good guy that maybe you had never noticed before.
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