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Another "There's this boy question," but this one is easy to
I went out with a group of friends, one of them was a girl who knows a bunch of upperclassmen (this was my freshman year, last year). She invited this one junior named Steve. This friend, Maddy, left to go home first.
Afterwards, as we were waiting for two of our other friends to be picked up, we were talking to Steve-this was the first time I had seen him in my life.
We were walking under the stars talking, the most romantic thing ever. He was so nice, and he was so protective (we were walking around horse stables at night, and my mother is paranoid). I instantly fell for him.
Fast forward just over a month. We were at a holiday party for a club that we are both in. I was sitting upstairs talking to a friend, and he says, to me, "It's good that one hot girl is still here!" Hot is NOT how I would describe myself.
Again, fast forward, but this time about 3 months. This club that we are in had a huuuuuuge performance. My part of the club was in a downstairs dressing room, everyone else was upstairs. In essence, he had no reason whatsoever to be down there.
People saw him come downstairs, look for me, and then when he didn't see me (I was upstairs, looking for him :] ), he would go back up. As I wa coming back down and he was going back up (after my part of the performance), I stopped and asked him if he had seen me mess up that night, and he said no, bu asked m e where I stood onstage and asked me to hug his teddy bear for good luck (His part of the show involved stuffed animals). I did.
In short, I still like him, and he doesn't really like me. He is two years older (15/17) and is graduating in June. I've tried getting over him, but every time I see him, my heart melts.
Any advice or comments about this?
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sounds like does like you. ill even stake my rating on that. tell him you like him, and then if he doesn't like you, rate me a 1.
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wow its really complicated dating a guy who is older than you, but I think that you should tell him how you feel, that way at least her knows how you feel. If he graduates and he has know clue that you ever felt this way then not only will you regret it, but you wont have been true to your self which is the most important thing isnt it. there will be lots of other guys, so dont fret if it doesnt work out, but I think that it is important that you be true to yourself and tell him what he needs to know. plus, its only september you have a whole year left wth him,maybe something will happen. or atleast you could become better friends. I hope it all works out good luck!
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