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so annoying
someone told me they heard my two friends, lucy and jill, saying really mean stuff about me. they didn't tell me exactly what but said they'd tell me more later because they had to go. i just think this kind of drama is so annoying, and i hate dealing with it. i know everyone talks behind other's backs, but my friend says it was meaner than just the usual stuff. i'm so over it, and this really annoys me. i'm not jumping to conclusions, because i know my friend could be wrong, but she has no reason to lie to me. what should i do?
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omg this stuff happens on a daily basis at my school. i say confront lucy and jill with what you know and see what they have to say and see their point of view. and believe me this takes a lot of will power. if they say [in a truthful, convincing way that sounds OK to you] that nothing happened and its all lies than shrug it off. but if it happens again thats just a little more than a coincidence and def. needs to be taken care of. but is the friend that told you this a REALLY good friend? or is it just a so-so, sometimes, whatever kinda friend? if it's the second one they might just be making up crap to make you mad and turn you against your friends to stir up some drama.
Good luck sweetie and I hope this helps;; xx
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It takes a lot of will-power to rise above things like this...It is good that you are not jumping to conclusions. However, it is not always a good idea to just let them keep talking behind your back. It might just be my perspective, but from my experiences i strongly believe in viocing your opinions and standing up for what you believe in. Try talking to those who you heard were saying things behind your back...tell them that you don't like it and that if they have a problem they shold tell you to your face so that the issue can be dealt with in a mature way, rather than just being rumoured between people.
I hope i have helped you...Good Luck! xxx
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