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Friends, Halloween, and Fantanas
For Halloween, my friends want to be Fantanas (there are four of us, like the Fantanas -- in case you don`t know what/who they are: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)). Anyways, last year, we all used to be really good friends, but now, one of them, lets call her Lola has been getting on my nerves really badly. She is very harsh to me and talks badly about me all the time. I really don`t want to be a Fantana with her, but theyve already got it all planned out. They all have outfits, I`m the only one that doesnt have one. Plus, they are going to go trick or treating, which I don`t mind, but I would rather go to a party. I told them we should throw a party, but the thing is I'm the only one of them that has any guy friends, so it would be a really lame party if they threw it.
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Oh, ouch. You're in a tight spot. I belive in freedom, beauty,truth,and love (call me Boho if you want), you should have the freedom to be what you want. This Lola person soundls like she needs some help. Find out if it's something that someone told her about you, or is it that she wants to move on? Talk to her, if you feel the need to do so, end the dying friendship. IF she continues to harras you, I strongly suggest telling someone you trust, that can do something to help you.
Well, I say you should do what ever you want to do about this party. If you want to throw a party by yourself, do it. But remember, trick-or-Teating, it's free candy!
Aneis
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haha! me & three of my friends are being the fantanas for halloween, too. anyways, since you already have it planned, you may be stuck with being a fantana with her. unless you decide to be something by yourself, but they might be mad at you and you can't exactly kick "Lola" out. if you want a party, and your the only one that has guy friends, you should throw it by yourself or get some other people to help you that aren't in the fantana group. they can just help bring food or set up or whatever.
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