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oh so confused


Question Posted Sunday September 24 2006, 3:39 pm

ok so heres the problem 2 guys like me and the first one lets call him brian well we went out and its a really long story but he didnt like me and when school started he started liking me but i dont know why the only things about me thats changed are my looks so i dont know but theres this other guy zack im almost sure he likes me but he wont tell me he just really makes it obvious he never tells anyone who he likes unless he knows that girl likes him for sure and i do like him but i dont know how to tell him or what to say and i still dont know about brian hes really sweet and he really likes me but hes so shy i feel bad for him i dont exactly know if i like him i mean hes sweet and all but hes too shy sorry this is so long but any advice would be great thanxx

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Volleyball2150 answered Sunday September 24 2006, 9:59 pm:
Ok, as I was reading this story... you reminded me of somebody. And then that made me think and I came up with your solution.
You like 2 boys.... do a pro-con situation.
Which boy do you have most in commen with?
What do you like about these 2 boys?
What dont you like about these 2 boys?
Who likes you for who you are?
You can rate them on a scale of 1-10 or 1-5.

Most important... talk to them! How will you ever know if they like you if you never talk to them. Let them get to know you. If Brian is too shy to confront you... why dont you confront him? Go up to him and just talk with him as if he was one of your best friends. He'll get less nervous around you. As for Zack, if he won't tell anybody who he likes, and he makes it obvious that he likes you... don't you think he actually does like you????
so confront him and talk to him. talk to him as if he was one of your best friends... that way he'll feel more confident around you and maybe he'll admit that he likes you. If he still doesnt admit it, YOU admit it first. If you say "oh I really like you..." he'll say "yeah, I relly like you too."

I hope I helped and all goes well!
-volleyball2150

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