ok so i moved to a different city but i still keep in touch with all my friends.MY best friend there espacailly we talk atleast twice a week but lately our talks have all turned into fights or me being a nag if she does something like smoke.i have been feeling like she doesnt care about me anymore so i told her we arent best friends anymore unless she can prove to me that she truly does care.But she says its to hard to impress me so she wont even try.what she doesnt understand is i just want to know that i mean something to her.i know she knows i care about her so why do i feel like she doesnt?
Additional info, added Sunday September 24 2006, 9:14 pm: i ment i feel like she doesnt care about me.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? 9BigBrat6 answered Sunday September 24 2006, 10:17 pm: Alot of times friends move away and for some reason we don't really know they start bickering. It could be because you aren't part of her every day life anymore so she thinks you just don't get it or you just don't hang out like you used to so it feels like you aren't friends. Some people say they just "grow apart" because they have different experiences and all. She might just feel like you just left her. I think you should just flat out tell her that you just wanted to know that your friendship meant something to her. say it means something to you that's why you "nag" her, you're looking out for her. but if it doesn't mean anything to her it's really not worth it right now. i'm sorry to say you should probably focus on making friends in your new town right now (if she's being like that). maybe later if you go back to your old town for some reason you can try to patch it up but at this piont i think it's better letting both of you cool off and get used to things first. [ 9BigBrat6's advice column | Ask 9BigBrat6 A Question ]
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