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Jealous, Catty or Me?
Since last weekend my best friend has been acting different. Last week was homecoming and we went with a group of our friends. Some time earlier in the evening I had told her that she and one of her guy friends would be cute together because she needed a nice time. She brushed off everything I said. Homecoming was a fun time and I spent part of the evening getting to know her previously mentioned guy friend better. I told her that I liked him later that night and she didn't sound upset. The next day we were celebrating her birthday [said guy friend being there] and we spent most of the party obviously flirting with each other. For some reason my friend found it necessary to tell all of the girls at the party that I suggested that she and her guy friend start something after I made it pretty clear that even though I had said it I really liked the guy. I'm still upset with her and it's difficult to talk to her about it and about anything going on crushwise. Is it my fault for introducing the idea to her or is it possible that she's purposefully trying to upset me? I like to think that she's not being insensitive because she's my best friend but she really hasn't made an effort to prove otherwise.
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It is possible she's trying to get you back for suggesting that and then deciding YOU actually liked him and then flirting with him at her party even if she did sound okay with it. maybe later she thought about it and was all why would she do that to me?. you probably should remind her that you like him and you might want to tell her why you siad that in the first place. as for what everyone else is thinking i think you better just brush that off unless you want to go around telling everyone your side of the story. she also could've just wanted attention. but yes, she is very possibly jealous or mad at you so even if it's hard i advise you talk to her.
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