Question Posted Saturday September 23 2006, 3:29 am
13/f/8th grade. it seems like im a back up friend to all of my friends. i feel like my friends only hang out with me or go to movies or eat lunch with me when all of their other friends are busy. some of them use me. and friends that i used to be best friends with dumped me once cooler kids wanted to be their friends. what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? dirtyxkitty answered Saturday September 23 2006, 8:22 pm: aw, i feel for you. But don't think of yourself like that, I have friends that I talk to but they're not necesarily the first people I want to hang out, but that doesn't mean I'm using them. My suggestion would be to really try to talk to them and get closer, maybe if you invited them to hang out or see a movie they'd have fun and want to do it again. I suggest seeing The Covenant, the movie is full of attractive guys so its the perfect opportunity to giggle and have fun. The columnsit below me is wrong. Don't dump your friends beacuse you'll have no one. [ dirtyxkitty's advice column | Ask dirtyxkitty A Question ]
Robby001 answered Saturday September 23 2006, 12:56 pm: Simple your friends are not really friends. Get some real ones, and then if they want you to hang out, simply ask them why “you’re other friends to busy?" Why try to be a friend with someone who is clearly using you. [ Robby001's advice column | Ask Robby001 A Question ]
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