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Broken Heart
My boyfriend broke up with me after just two weeks and it was all the sudden. On Monday and Tuesday we were still a happy couple, but all the sudden on Wednesday afternoon he said we were over. I can't figure out why. There are rumors that he is likes one of my best friends. And she likes him... A LOT. It's killing me because I love him and I can't just all the sudden stop liking him. It seriously isn't puppy love because it feels different-better than anything. I love being around him but if I even look at him my eyes will tear up and I'll cry. So the next morning my friend that I was telling about earlier asked me if I was still friends with him and I said no. Was I right to say no? No I cry everytime I think about him. If I would have said yes then maybe we might eventually go back out, but I am not sure if I really want that. I don't know how to feel. What should I do?
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Ah..this is simliar it what happened to me before. There has to be a reason why he just broke up with you.You seem so like him so you need to talk to him I know it might be hard but you have to.That was my mistake because I just held it all in.Tell him how you feel I`m sure he feels the same or realizes stuff.Don`t let him know your crying because of him..♥
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well, you feel bad because you had high hopes for where the relationship was going which is okay. He shouldnt have broken up with you without giving him a reason and you are mad at him. thats fine. you dont have to be friends with he people you break up with. and right now you still want to get back together with him, but soon you will realize that hes a stupid boy, (lol jk) and that he isnt worth your attention. even if he does get together with your friend, it doesnt matter. try and be happy for them, but if thats imposible for you, then just spend time with your friend when your ex isnt around. but try to let your friend know that you still have feelings for him, that way she will hopefully still be sensitive and wont talk about him too much in front of you. dont tell her not to go out with him tho because she will resent you for it. be a good friend. I hope this all works out for you. and i hope i helped.
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well, if you think your up to it, try talkign to him. just friendly, not pushing your feeligns, much. if your goign to cry though, dont make yourself talk to him. maybe he will pass in time, i know mine did. but, what i dont wan tyou to do is try and make your friend and him go out. hope i helped :)
ps: you could always start the convo like "so, what was that about on wednesday? i was so surprised" and act cool about it. you have the right to know exactly what happened.
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