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I lost my 4 best friends... What do I do?
To start everything off, I'll say that I'm 16 and my friends mean the world to me. And to lose the people that I've grown up with is something I don't know how to deal with... We have a click around my neighborhood that was us 4 or 5 girls and a couple boys. Back in May I went away for the weekend and came back to find that my best friend of 7 years was getting really close with this other 2-faced, drama loving girl from our neighborhood. While I don't have a problem with it, they decided that since I talked to her ex boyfriend they were both going to be mad at me. Even when me and him were ONLY friends for years before they even dated. I tried 5 times during the summer to apoligize and see what I did so wrong to my bff, but neither would tell me. So I hung out with the other 2 girls in the area. One of them is always up my ex best friend's rear end and started ditching me for her. To make a long story short, she was then mad at me for nothing other than she wanted to hang out with her more. The last girl is caught in between and I'm not the type to make her choose. I have other friends but these are the girls that were everything to me. What do I do after they've even gone so far as to scream names at me down the street to look cool in front of the new boys that they hang out with? And what they said was the only thing that they knew for a fact would hurt the worst? Do I try to be nice with them, even during the classes we have together?
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hello,
I was involved in a similar thing, except i was on the other side of the "fence." A group of friends and I were totally mean to this girl in our class last year. Not giving every little detail, we ended up losing a lot of time wasted on fighting this girl. sure we hurt her feelings, she hurts ours back, and now we never speak, but I'm sure you know how thta feels, girls can be mean. Thats an understatment. but eventually they may get tired and give up. If not, then just realize that the only reason that they are doing it is to look cool, and get a lot of laughs. Dont let them get you down, eventually things will turn around hopefully. I hope I helped. good luck.
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well, right now i think that they are acting extreamly imiture. if they arnt willing to tell you what you did, then maybe they injoy beign mad at you. they dont seem liek the best of friends, but i wouldn't know. try to forget it for a little while, hang with soem other people, see if they coem back to you. what u shouldn't do is sink down to their level, no matter how tempting. hope i helped. :)
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