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dont even know where too start.
uh, well this all start on the first day of school. i sit down in a seat with my reallllly good friend of 6 years, heather. we have a new bus schedule and it was the first day of highschool, so i was interested in any cute guys. one stop, had this really cute guy named steve on it. i only recongnize him from being on my friends myspaces. so a few days passed and then around wednesday the 13th i added him on myspace and i got his screenname hes a junior, heathers a sophmore, we started talking alot. and i started to like him. the only thing that sucked was that he had a girlfriend, we talked a little over the weekend and he told me to say hey to him on monday. monday finally came and i was sooo excitied, when i got onto the bus i told heather that i had been talking to him and she seemed surprised, because this kid is kind of popular. and so i could tell heather was like jealous that they dont really talk. anyway, me and steve had been talking this whole week and today heather got off at my bus stop, and we were planning on going to the mall. we were sitting in front of the computer and i as usual was talking about steve, and she knows i like him. we were on myspace and we saw that him and his girlfriend brokeup. i was so happy, words couldnt describe. i was talking to him and trying to make him feel better and stuff. heather says "we should tell him to meet us at the mall, i'd probably hook up with him" ....i dont understand how she could say that. and then she kept saying how cute he was. i didnt make the connection that she was starting to like him. after that she left and when we were talking online she said that she decided to go with her friend lilly. i got pissed at that too. so i decided to go with my friend alison, so i posted a myspace bulletin saying oh yay im going with alisonto the mall, and steve i-med me saying oh yay im going to ! lets meet up or something ! i was in suchhh a good mood and then it all fell down. first alison decides to ditch, and go over her friends, then heather callsme asking me if i am coming to the mall, and she also adds that she was sending steve messages back and forth, and she told me to read them, so i go on her myspace and she lied, she reversed everything, like she said that he said that he wanted to hang with her, and on themessages it was backwards. she was the one who wanted to hang with him. anyway so now im home, and im praying that they dont hook up. because that would ruin my life and my friend ship with heather.
this is my question:
do i have a chance ? should i stay liking steve ? and should i still talk to heather ?
if you think i should still like steve.. then do you have any tips for me ?
thanks <3
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Why shouldn't you like Steve? He's single, he's fair game. I know I'm making him sound like a little piece of man-meat or something right now, but you get the jist of it.
Heather's just extremely jealous because you're going to get the cool, popular, cute guy while she gets zip. I'm not too sure if I would continue being friends with her. If she's going to be all dramatic and try and steal your guy, it doesn't sound like she wants you to be happy either, which isn't being a good friend. If she was a good friend she'd be happy for you.
I think you really do have a chance, it sounds like it to me. Just keep talking to him more and more and flirt with him a bit and show him how great of a person you are, and how not great of a person Heather is. And if you're going to hang out with him - don't tell Heather and don't talk to him while Heather's around, cause it's only going to make her want to compete with you for him more and make you more jealous. But in school just keep seeing him, maybe even hug him - suggest a time to really hang at the mall just the two of you since you guys didn't get to before or maybe catch a new flick that's out at the movies.
But if you want to remain friends with Heather, talk to her about this and how you're feeling and everything. She needs to know how she's acting and that she's hurting her friends feelings. And if she doesn't back off still, then like I said before, I suggest forgetting her.
I hope I helped, and I hope everything works out!
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