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busy boy troubles


Question Posted Friday September 22 2006, 7:10 pm

i dont even know where too start.
uh, well this all start on the first day of school. i sit down in a seat with my reallllly good friend of 6 years, heather. we have a new bus schedule and it was the first day of highschool, so i was interested in any cute guys. one stop, had this really cute guy named steve on it. i only recongnize him from being on my friends myspaces. so a few days passed and then around wednesday the 13th i added him on myspace and i got his screenname hes a junior, heathers a sophmore, we started talking alot. and i started to like him. the only thing that sucked was that he had a girlfriend, we talked a little over the weekend and he told me to say hey to him on monday. monday finally came and i was sooo excitied, when i got onto the bus i told heather that i had been talking to him and she seemed surprised, because this kid is kind of popular. and so i could tell heather was like jealous that they dont really talk. anyway, me and steve had been talking this whole week and today heather got off at my bus stop, and we were planning on going to the mall. we were sitting in front of the computer and i as usual was talking about steve, and she knows i like him. we were on myspace and we saw that him and his girlfriend brokeup. i was so happy, words couldnt describe. i was talking to him and trying to make him feel better and stuff. heather says "we should tell him to meet us at the mall, i'd probably hook up with him" ....i dont understand how she could say that. and then she kept saying how cute he was. i didnt make the connection that she was starting to like him. after that she left and when we were talking online she said that she decided to go with her friend lilly. i got pissed at that too. so i decided to go with my friend alison, so i posted a myspace bulletin saying oh yay im going with alisonto the mall, and steve i-med me saying oh yay im going to ! lets meet up or something ! i was in suchhh a good mood and then it all fell down. first alison decides to ditch, and go over her friends, then heather callsme asking me if i am coming to the mall, and she also adds that she was sending steve messages back and forth, and she told me to read them, so i go on her myspace and she lied, she reversed everything, like she said that he said that he wanted to hang with her, and on themessages it was backwards. she was the one who wanted to hang with him. anyway so now im home, and im praying that they dont hook up. because that would ruin my life and my friend ship with heather.

this is my question:
do i have a chance ? should i stay liking steve ? and should i still talk to heather ?

if you think i should still like steve.. then do you have any tips for me ?

thanks <3


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christina answered Monday September 25 2006, 9:35 am:
You definitely have a chance. If he was asking you to meet up and not her, he obviously sees something he likes better in you. Besides, you probably have a lot that she doesn't. You should definitely stay liking him. Don't back down because your friend wants to give you some competition. Take her competition & shoot her down everytime. I wouldn't stay friends with her. She knows how you feel about him, and she goes in for the kill! Who does that & claims they're your best friend? NO ONE. I'd ditch her, she's not worth your time.

All I can say, is just talk to him more. Form the friendship more. And then if he doesn't already know, tell him that you like him, and if he likes you back, start dating! Good luck!

&hearts;TiNA

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