How to get a friend i've known for 4 years to like me
Question Posted Saturday September 16 2006, 4:33 pm
Well here's the thing there's this guy i've known for 4 years. Ever since the first time I saw him I had a crush on him. He's not the best looking guy but i like him because he has a good heart and he always helps me with all my problems. I thought he really liked me until a new girl came to our school this year and he asked her to the dance.I got soo mad because i'm soo much prettier than her and me and him are soo much alike. Everyone says we'd make the cutest couple. The dance is in 2 weeks soo pleeeeeeeaaaaase help me!!!
MelLeDisko answered Sunday September 17 2006, 12:11 pm: I would just talk to him more and try and put a little flirting in there here and there and make him laugh and just be cute, and show him how great you are.
Also, ask him if you guys can share a couple of dances at the dance [ both slow and fast ] so you'll be able to talk more to him there and flirt, etc.
Another thing, is if you've waited 4 years, I would seriously just tell him. You've already waited so long, do you really want to wait around another 3 years or so?
Just keep trying, but if he doesn't like you in that way, then I'm sorry, you'll just have to learn how to deal with it. You can never really make a guy like you, you can only help him notice you more and then it's up to him to realize how great you are.
But if he doesn't realize it, it's his loss. Just know that.
evan66 answered Saturday September 16 2006, 10:47 pm: If yu haven't tried this already just ignore him don't talk to him for about a week and if you do make sure there short brief convo'sand you end them. If that doest work then you must start acting cute around like laugh at things he says and make some jokes that arent really that funny and if he laughs thats a good sign. Just hang out with him alot that second week and see what happens. [ evan66's advice column | Ask evan66 A Question ]
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