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I've been talking to this guy i've met in a christian chatro
Hey my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and i've been chatting in this christian chatroom called church usa and i've been talking to this really cute guy named clark he sent me his picture over the computer yesterday when we met and the whole time while we were talking in the chatroom I kept smiling and laughing and giggling and i kept typing in smiles and lol ever few minutes and we exchanged emails and asked me to send him a flirty email so i sent him one after I seen his picture i told him he looked pretty cute and he was really sexy and i really thought that what's going on here and while I was talking to him he asked me out of the blue if I had a boyfriend and i said no what's going on here do you think i have feelings for him and does he have feelings for me thanks for all of your help please help me.
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Sounds like flirting. I hope you realize that just because it is labeled as "christian," there is no guarentee that stalkers and liars are not there. It is still an internet chatroom, so do not give out ANY personal information at all!!! Take it as slow as possible, and do not send photos or encourage sex-talk. Guys do not generally develop feelings and attachments like girls do. They do like phone and internet sex-talk a lot and flirting and most are there for selfish reasons. Some creeps who are really old stinky men use someone else's picture and pose as a young attractive guy in order to lure a girl. I hope this is not your case, but please be cautious. It may be better to meet guys the old fashioned way!
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I think the feelings are there for the both of you. However, try remembering that this is internet dating. People can easily trick you and make you think they're as young as you are when they could really be older. I know you were probably expecting that tip, but just keep it in mind, it'll keep you safer.
Online dating can work, so try not to let people tell you the opposite. It's a rare thing, but it can work. The biggest step you'll want to keep in mind is to get to know him a lot better before you go letting out your personal information. Keep getting to know him until at least you feel safe and secure with him knowing your private issues. It may be a Christian chatroom, but you just never know about who you're talking to.
-TheTeenGirl
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Be careful.
The internet CAN be very dangerous,
I'm sure you know that.
Just make sure his picture is legit,
because a lot of people [paedophiles,pervs,etc]
use fake pictures of some guy, and etc to trick others into meeting them or something.
I dont think you can have feelings for someone over the internet, well I mean YES you can, but you cant really get to know somebody over the internet as good as you can in real life.
I'm not saying meet him, I highly dont suggest doing that, but yeah I guess what I would like to emphasize is be careful!!
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Infatuation. I am the same way with a lot of different people I meet online but really, I won't develope feelings for them.
You met this person online. How do you know if he's real or not? He could easily be taking those pictures form another person's site just to lure you in. Just be careful and if you do wish to meet him, have it in a public place iwth a lot of friends around.
But really, a lot of guys ask that for not reason. I mean they could be in a relationship themselves and yet ask that.
I'd say you should slow down your flirting and lower it a bit. Becareful not to give out too much personal infor such as your phone number, address, full name, etc.
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