I have fallen for this man that i have known And crushed on for over a year. We worked together(he quit yesterday). I guess you can say he pretty much lead me on.When we worked together He would flirt constantly with me, throw little things at me, when i went on lunch break he would call the store on his cell phone and call me to the front of the store just to talk to me(i didnt realize it was him calling until i got up there) And i would spend the entire lunch break talking with him. He actually listened to every word i said and acted like he cared. Now that is why i have fallen for him.
Problem is hes 27 and im 17. He has a girlfriend that pretty much hates me(im guessing). I saw his girlfriend today and she gave me a reallly evil look. She doesnt know me outside of work.
Im really confused. I hate the fact that he quit because i absolutely love working with this guy. Not only because i get to see him but because hes the only person i work well with.
Additional info, added Friday September 15 2006, 8:15 pm: Dont tell me to back away from him because he has a girlfriend already. I honestly do not care about the age difference so dont tell me im too young i already know that. Im not stupid.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? unluckychick answered Saturday October 7 2006, 3:02 pm: Ok...I know that many people would be like "Gross! You like a 27 year old...and your seventeen!"...well...I have a similar problem...I Am in love with a 36 year old married guy...for 2 years now...and I'm 16...So naturally...I can help you with this one...
First... Try your hardest to forget him... Then...Go out and meet new people to get your mind off him...I know this may me someting your hear alot but it's what you have to start with...I personally have never been able to completely get over him but if you can convert most of your feelings into a good friendship it works great...you end up forgeting that your in love with him...(I speak from experience)...♥
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I really hope this helps...let me know if it does...(my e-mail is amasing_fun@hotmail.com)
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cutie_pie answered Saturday September 16 2006, 9:27 pm: i know you said dont tell you to back away, but would you honestly want to be that girl? imagine if u were her...
Age on the other hand doesn't matter at all, as long as both ppl are mature enough.
but as for him...he doesn't seem like a very nice person. I say this because he flirted with you, and led you on when he already had a girlfriend. no decent guy would do that...
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