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I messed up bad this summer with this guy i liked. I never went o ut with him but we were together. we tried ending it a lot of itmes but we both still liked ecahother so we always gave in.
now its been over for good for a couple weeks and he was trying to get over me and told me we couldnt hang out one on one and stuff, it crushed me. i cant get him out of my head and i love him sooo much. homecoming is coming up and our friendship has been a little rocky since we ended but i really want to go with him. i was thinking id tell him i know someone who wants to go with him really bad, and then later tell him the pesron i know is me. and ask him if he would want to or no. do you think this is a godo idea? shoot.... hes perfect.
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If he's the guy that's meant for you, then he must know you pretty well. So by telling him that 'someone' really wants to go to homecoming with him, and that someone is you, chances are he would've known all along. If there's no chance of you two going together as 'dates' then maybe you could ask him to go as a friend, with no awkwardness and no pressure. It could be a good experience for the both of you, maybe even a chance for him to realize what he's missing out on. Good luck, keep me posted. -Angel
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I think that you should be direct and honest with him. Tell him that it would be great if you went to the dance together and you were wondering if he would. Don't lead him to believe that someone else is interested in him. If you do that, he will end up being disappointed and maybe even feel like you tricked him or lied to him. Not disappointment becauase another person would be better than you, but there's a certain excitement and adrenaline that comes with things that are new. You aren't a new idea to him. Just because you aren't new doesn't mean you aren't good, though. If he is still interested in you he will probably go to the dance with you - as friends. Asking to go as a date is too big of a step, unless he is the one that suggests it. Take it slow and maybe it will work out for you. If he doesn't accept your invitation, don't be discouraged right away. There's still a chance that you two can get together either at the dance or another time. Good luck! :)
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Well honesty is important in a relationship but since it seems that the circumstances force the person to go to extreme measures I would say that's a good idea because like you said he didn't even want you too to hang out since it wasn't working out,once you convince him to show up then tell him the truth he will have to see,realize how much you like him that you would even do something like that not that it's a crime or anything but there are times you would have to fight for what you want so do what yuo have to and I wish that you , him be together again have faith, and confidence in yourself.
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