So...I spent the summer getting to know the guy I liked. We became friends. Everything was going good, I even think he kinda liked me, but he was too shy to do anything. He had this one girl friend who liked another guy. One day, she finds out the guy she likes has a girlfriend, so she asks my guy friend out.
Now he is all confused about it, but he says he's going to try with her. I know she's using him as a rebound and I'm trying not to be selfish in this. I'm the friend yet again, but I don't know what to do. Should I just be his friend or tell him how I feel?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? angie91 answered Sunday September 10 2006, 11:31 am: Well, right now i think that he needs his space. he's already confused enough as it is with the other girl, and if he's your friend you have to be supportive of him. but you also have to be true to your heart and tell him how you feel, but I think that should wait until hes done with the other girl. if you tell him how you feel right now he might not know what to say and then he'll probably end up hurting your feelings. I realize that you want to be more than a friend to him, and I think thats awsome but he may just want to think of you as a friend so as you are preparing to tell him how you feel, think of all of the answers he could potentially give. Make sure that you can tell him that you accept his dicision if he says that he just wants to be friends and try not to look to hurt. Its always tough to get to that stage above friendship with a guy, but always remember if it doesnt work out there are more fish in the sea. good luck!! hope this helps [ angie91's advice column | Ask angie91 A Question ]
MissPink answered Sunday September 10 2006, 10:46 am: Dear Just Friends
Tell him how you feel i think he will understand and if he likes you the same way you should start dating him.
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