I just moved to a new school. My old school was an all-girls school, but my mum was a teacher at an all-boys school, so it wasnt that awkward when I moved to a co-ed school (if that makes sense??)
Anyway, now I'm actually going to school with guys, and they are in my classes and I don't really mind. But when it's sport I get really self-conscious. Like I can't be good enough for anyone. I want to make a good impression on people that I am meeting for the first time. I don't want to tell my new friends because I don't really know them that well yet. I know this sounds a bit weird but in my last school I wasn't at all popular, and suddenly, at this new school, it seems like everyone wants to know me, and a few guys have told me that they have crushes on me already!! I think I am panicking, but I don't know what I can do to calm down and focus on schoolwork instead of being so worried about making good impressions on everyone. Someone please tell me what I can do??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? tootsierollsweet999 answered Wednesday September 13 2006, 12:48 am: There's nothing acward about being around boys i love them and if they say they like you already they must not know you to well...And in sprots just try your hardest and ur coch or teacher will notice how hard you working and for making new friends i know what your going through this year i stayed back so came back to school with a puch of kinderganden kids!!!they should like you for you not how fast you can run and yeah i understand inpressing but try to do you hardest and there has ot be kids that suck more then you do right??and i have to change my cloths before gym where GOOD cloths when your ready and confortible with the guys wear a shirt that when you lift your arms up shows a little and when you bend over...haha just kidding be yourslef and let them come to you
sourpatchkids379 answered Sunday September 10 2006, 12:09 pm: First of all, take a deep breath.
Now, this is not a bad thing,
guys like you you're making new friends,
the transition is working for you.
Most of the time, even if you are comfortable with the people you are still going to be worried about what they think about you.
It's called being a teenager.
Just take a deep breath,
and really get into soemthing,
choir, math, anything.
something to take your mind off of it.
you might consider yoga or just taking some time every day to relax.
most of all ahve fun with it.
MissPink answered Sunday September 10 2006, 10:42 am: Dear Embarassed
CALM DOWN TAKE A CHILL PILL, REALLY.
If boys have a crush on you and you have mates already i think they like you for who you are so just be your self.
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