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Awkwardlyness...
Okay, when I'm friends with guys, I can ramble on and on and be myself and not selfconcious or anything. It's just so normal. But when I end up going out with a guy, it's completely different! I don't know what to talk about and I feel so self concious and it's like I've become this awkward shy person. Knowing the fact that htis guy is my boyfriend changes things for me in a way that I don't kow. Anyone know how to help me get over this?!??!
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um yeah. k let the guy talk a bit. just stay calm as a cucumber and let him make the conversation. you are probably just shy and he'll figure that out and help you deal with it. guys arent that stupid lol. the guys are use to this. they know that a lot of girls are like that and they learn to deal with it. try getting to know the guy well first and if you get shy again, tell him that and becasue he knows ytou already then he can help you get into a stage where you are confident and feel safe. good luck. its not as much getting over tyou problem as it is reaking the ice. everyone goes through it. I'm sure your guys are too.
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go on a date with the guy of your choice, but have it a group outing the first time. that way, youll all be able to loosen up, and it will give an excuse for those awkward moments. id say thats your best bet.
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Just think of the boyfriend as a friend, still. Most people have this problem, just remember, he's more like a BEST guy friend, lol. Make sure you still try to hve fun, and just really think of him as one of your other guy friends who you play around with and everything.
REmember, he's not expecting you to be all mature and everything, he shouldn't expect you to change, and he most likely went out with you because he liked how you acted when you were friends.
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