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crushing on my friend
im a 15/f and i like this guy alot that ive known for about 3 years who just turned 15 but is in the grade below me, but ive only started liking him recently. we have so much in common and hes absolutely hilarious. yesterday at his football game i was there on the sidelines because i work with football and a team ( the team hes on) played second so the entire time b team was playing he was just bugging me. there are 2 other girls that work the games with me that are closer to his age but he doesnt seem to care about them. i would just be standing there and hed walk by and shove me and i'd stumble a bit and he'd smile at me and say something stupid and sarchastic so i know hes just kidding. Before his game he came up to me and shoved me a little and said "good luck shove", smiled and walked away. during the game he would stand next to me really close and talk to me or just joke around. im pretty sure hes flirting with me but how do i make sure? he doesnt joke in a friendly way it just seems more flirtatious. Hes really touchy feely, not in a creepy way but like in an innocent way like hugs or playing with your hand, stuff like that. Oh, and at practices he always comes to talk to me. thanks sooooo much, sorry this was so long, i just didnt want to leave anything out!
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Hey!
My BFF went through the EXACT same thing. I told her to act on it. She was one of his best friends and the only time they spent together was with their other 10 or so friends. I told her to ask him out to do something alone. She said that she was too shy and that she was just going to wait a few weeks to see if he did anything. The next day he announced to everyone in the school that he was moving in three weeks. She came to my house crying because she knew that nothing could ever happen between them. I told her that she should still tell him the way she feels so that she can get over it and move on with her life. The night before he was going to move she walked over to his house to give him a letter with her confession in it. She hugged him good bye and handed him the letter. He looked at it with surprise and she walked home. A week and a half later. After days of her sobbing and depression, she got a letter from him it was the same letter he wrote all his friends giving them his return address. But she also received a letter telling her that he also had feelings for her. Of course they never acted on it from then on because he lives too far away, but they both really regret not acting on their feelings. If you dont act on your feelings he will never know how you feel. And you never know, he may like you back. But guys are weird you never know how he'll react. Whatever you do though, dont let it affect your friendship. Because there are millions of guys out their and only a few are your friends. I hope this helps.
good luck with whatever you choose to do.
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