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brother and his gf problems
My brother has been dating Ammi for over a year. he is so in love with her. he's 17 and she's 16. ammi, robbie and i grew up together. ammi loves robbie too, but my parents hate ammi with a passion. they have been trying to break up robbie and ammi's relationship before they started dating. this is gonna be hard for you guys to understand. and im sorry. you guys dont know the whole story. it would take hours to type it all. but my parents control me and robbies life. they control every aspect of it. and we both hate it. its only 3 more months before robbie moves in with ammi.(possibly. he can legally move out in 3 months) but she's been confiding in me, telling me that we are better off without her because my parents have been hard on us because of her dating robbie. and she wants to break up with him. to a degree. just to make it easier for the rest of us. but if she breaks up with him, i know he;s gonna commit suicide. and i cant live without him because he's all i got. i just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. my ex has taken all of me with him. so all i have left is my brother. i just dont want him to do anything. what am i supposed to do? he knows that im in pain. he knows that i hurt. he knows that i cry myself to sleep almost every night. i just dont want him to do anything if she does break up with him. cause i know it will be the end of me if its the end of him.
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This is very complicated and I'm truly sorry for all of this. But I think you are very brave person for taking on this break-up and caring for your brother at the same time.
The truth of the matter is that you can't break up with your brother for Ammi. She has to do it herself because he'd probably feel even worse that it's coming from his little sister.
I understand your concern for his reaction to the break-up and theres no doubt that he will be devastated. But, she can't stay with him because he might take his life. I think you are overthinking all of this. You need to take life one moment at a time. Tell Ammi that you do want to be there for her but she has to break-up with him herself if that's what she really wants.
I know you didn't ask for advice on your relationship. But I just want to tell you from someone whose been where you are and back, you'll make it. Crying yourself to sleep doesn't feel good, but you're healing, I promise. Just don't give up on this, you are holding on so strong and a lot of girls can't do that like you.
-TheTeenGirl
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I truly do understand your troubles. The teenage years are extremely difficult and parents tend to make it even more hard. It would be much easier if I could talk to you and ask you questions, if it is at all possible, please instant message me on aol at skyyisbloo. It is imprtant that you confide in your brother and his girlfriend about your problems. Tell your brother exactly how you'll feel without him. Tell his girlfriend that not only would breaking up with him hurt the two of them, but you as well. When I was younger, I actually fell in love with this guy, much older than me, it was illegal and my parents got involved, oh, he was married by the way. And so i was soooo upset beyond reasoning, but I got over it. However, under your circustances, I see that the problem is more severe than it seems. You truly need to do as I said and see what they say. And don't forget to try and contact me if you can. Good luck, I'm so sorry for your pain.
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