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Pregnant but I don't know who the dad is
i recently had sex with my boyfriend for 4 years and he didn't use a condom like we usually do well i konw i'm pregnant but we broke up and it was really hard for both of us and he lives in mexico so i don't know his number and i'm scared to tell my parents but the catch is i had sex with my best guy friend and well he might be the father so i really need to konw wat to do as well as finding the one in mexico and konwing which is the father and how i can tell my parents and wat i can do as far as adoption?
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i hate to be the bearer of such bad news, but there is NO way to get around all this- you have to tell your parents every detail. or youll end up screwing somebody over in the long run. i myself am pregnant, and going through tough times- if you need sumone to talk to, im here for ya.
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It will be EXTREMELY hard to find your ex in Mexico. The best thing you can do for now is confide in your parents. They deserve to know. I've had sex with my boyfriend and I haven't told my mom, I don't plan on it but I'm definitely not pregnant. You can't find out who the true father is until the baby is born, they will swab your guy friend and then your child. As far as adoption goes, I truly only suggest it if you either cannot afford it or are extremely young. I once read a story of a girl who became pregnant and her mother made her have an abortion, she cries and wishes that she could change what happened, as well as her mother. If you would like to talk to me privately, feel free to IM me at skyyisbloo. I won't be on much longer but I'm sure I can help. Good luck.
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